Woman Concerned About Porn Addicted Boyfriend, Needs Advice

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As part of Busted Coverage’s continuing change in programming we offer our readers an advice column.

paulina-james-2007-avn-awards-show-red-carpet-lt0ojb.jpgToday, thanks to the Chicago Tribune, we are treated to a woman who’s boyfriend is addicted to porn and she’s contemplating moving out, leaving him with his mountain of skin flix.

Jack and I began dating in 2002. We moved in together 18 months ago. Jack is completely different than my ex-husband. I love him and we had a wonderful relationship until a former co-worker of his (female) started sending him tons of junk mail, including porn.

Busted Coverage Take: Whoa, wait a minute, who’s this former co-worker. We’d like to talk to her. What a chick. Sending junk mail porn is a fast way to any man’s heart. Be very concerned. She’s likely not had it lately and this is a call to your boyfriend to slip the ham bone.

He has started watching it almost daily, and it’s taken a huge toll on our sex life. Sex used to be wonderful. Sometimes multiple times a day, almost always different and fun.

But a few months ago, it started to get less often (about four times a week) and it’s usually the same.

Busted Coverage Take: You got fat, right? Too many brownies and Mountain Dew’s? He’s disinterested and it’s become a routine. Or you became really bitchy and he can only stand it 4 times a week and that’s just so you’ll make dinner and wash the laundry. Get on a diet…quickly. Run 10 miles a day. Lose some weight and he’ll either pay attention or you’ll be landing new dudes by the New Year.

I don’t understand why he would want to watch sex instead of having it with his willing partner. Now my self-esteem has plummeted. When we do have sex, I’m so self-conscious, I don’t enjoy it.

Busted Coverage Take: See above.

Those who say that porn is harmless are nuts. Porn is cheating; it hurts just the same. And it’s making me sick. My back is tense. I can’t sleep. I feel ugly, unwanted, and unloved.

Busted Coverage Take: Hold it right there, darling. Your boyfriend might not be giving it to you like back in the day but hands off our sacred porn. Men have worked very hard to provide themselves with the Internet and a subscription to Paulina James’ (pictured) Web site. Hate your boyfriend all you want but don’t lump all of us into his category. As for the ugly comment, (see above). No doubt you put on 30 over the course of the relationship. It was all fun and games, you ate like a cow and now he’s wanting something that doesn’t smother him in the sack.

I’m saving my money so that I’ll be able to move out. I don’t think our relationship is salvageable.

Busted Coverage Take: Sounds good. You’ll be bagging new guys in no time. Hit us up in 6 months when your new guy turns to porn and only gives it to you twice a week.

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